The Need to be Loved

River of Life by Fabienne

The only essential emotional need of human beings as well as animals and plants, is the need to be recognized and of course best if loved and valued.  Proof is found in “The Secret Life of Water” from Dr. Masaru Emoto.

When a first child, discovers his sibling in HIS house, with HIS parents, the emotional pain is such that it creates a real trauma for the older first child who used to be the ONLY one.

Of course life is about learning and sharing but the awareness of a child is not able to process the strong painful feelings. For example I love my two sons with all my heart and soul, however that love translate through different ways, because they are different and my personal relationship with each one of them is unique. I don’t need and cannot say that I love one more, or less. I make sure that they know that I see them as individual as well as my sons.

From Exhultation to Disillusion

La Joie d'Aimer by Fabienne

When we fall in love, our energy is high and we feel like walking on clouds with joyful exhultation. We are happy, we feel special, understood and it is easy for us to communicate our projects and dreams with our new partner

Time goes by and we forget celebrating each others birthdays,  we grow hair in the ears, wemay gain weight  and we stop going out on dates. We become lazy and selfish or out of purpose. The flower of our romantic love is ignored and dying from lack of care.

We may lose hope that things could be different, better or simply like it used to be.  Indifference and disillusion build a wall between the two hearts too proud and afraid of pain to make the first move toward re-union.

We have to take full responsibility for all our relationships and believe in the sacred value of our love commitment.

Ask yourself:

• What could I do to be that irresistible, beautiful and fun person that fell in love only few years ago?
• Where is the pain that I experience in the present moment coming from?
• Who does it remind me of?
• What would it take for my heart and soul to be content and on track of a meaningful purpose?

If we ignore the feeling of isolation, build –up of resentments, we will need much healing to recover from such negligence. With this in mind, the purpose of Papillon Total Transformation  Retreat is to self-actualize self-love and self-esteem in a safe and nurturing context.

There is always a Solution, and the time is now!

In Harmony & Light,

Fabienne

Healing is Forgiveness

Bird of Paradise by Fabienne

Healing is all about forgiveness.

But before we can accomplish true forgiveness, we need to let the inner child speak up his truth, pain, anger, sadness, etc. Recognizing and expressing our emotions is the root of the healing process. Living in denial or suppressing emotions is the most dangerous thing to do, because it hide deep into our subconscious what our mind is not ready to deal with.

 

We have several ways to avoid pain:

• seeing yourself as a “victim”
• denying all responsibility or logic in the negative experience that brings suffering, blaming yourself or others
• feeling guilty - none of these work.

A true healer will empower you to find your truths first, the Karmic reason for your choices, the meaning of the lesson attached to that experience and then he will guide you to find a way out of pain through real forgiveness. It is a process that requires profound compassion, absence of judgment and strength because your free will is activated in this healing experience.

It is easier to accomplish a complete healing therapy in a private session. However workshops setting help to bring out the main issues that need to be addressed, works as catalyst and teachings of metaphysical principles are more easily delivered in group settings. The spiritual synergy of the group also brings comfort and opens new horizons for understanding and possibilities.

Be careful with shortcuts and please do not rely on psychic advisers or coaches that are too directing. Giving you your answers is stealing your empowerment and not teaching you the way. A good Spiritual Counselor or Life Coach will empower you to heal, grow and create your unique vision of possibilities. Each one of us carries the seed of his own Destiny into our “Heart & Soul”. Our mission is to recognize such “Visions” and strive toward the manifestation of our perfect intent in Harmony & Peace.

In Gratitude,
Fabienne

 

Therapeutic Dowsing

Finding the Truth!

What would you say if you could access the truth with your higher and best interest, every time you wonder about any question related to your health (such as choice of vitamins), business decisions, or relationships?

You may have heard of dowsers searching for water, minerals or even for missing persons. Did you know that you can also dowse to identify emotional issues such as fear, find the cause of an addiction, a block in your success? You may find guidance on solving practical problems, such as where to relocate your house or your office for a profitable outcome. Dowsing can assist you to anchor love and happiness in your relationships as well.

With Therapeutic Dowsing we can access very precise answers about any subject that is ethical to ask. Spiritual Dowsing with Pendulum not only clarifies problems but can heal them even at distance (Telepathic Dowsing). Like many other healers, I can feel from within my own body the truth of a statement, it is part of being a clairsentient(clairvoyance through all the senses, such as shivering), however with dowsing I can be more specific. For example, we can find out how much time is necessary before a healing can take place, or when a move is appropriate to relocate a business.

The principle behind dowsing is the fact that we can connect with the Source of all Wisdom, Truth and Love for knowledge and healing.

The pendulum is a medium to connect with the Divine Source: Higher Self, God, Goddess, Infinite Spirit, Holy Spirit, Life Force or what ever name is comfortable for you to use. I had been clearing Chakras since I had the privilege to learn Crystal Therapy from Dr. Sunny Satin himself before his passing in 2006. First the pendulum indicates the Chakras that need to be balanced, cleared or recharged; than the healing takes place using a Generator Crystal and telepathy with spiritual and mental projection.

A cute case study involves one of my clients whose cat was suffering from nightmares. The cat would regularly wake-up at night obviously frightened. After a 20 minute session of Telepathic Healing (the cat was not present at the session), we got to the cause of the nightmares and received permission to heal. The cat has slept like a baby ever since and does not show anymore signs of being afraid. Click here for testimonials.

Therapeutic Dowsing & Telepathic Healing can be done in office, e-mail or by phone session.

Blessings, Fabienne.

Anger

La Mer by Fabienne

Anger is an emotion that you either have within you or not.
When someone or something triggers anger in you it is the result of dormant energy that is ready to come out from deep, suppressed past resentments or frustrations.

The subconscious mind that never forgets anything keeps emotions stored in your mind like a computer’ file. This is why suppressed resentments that turn into suppressed anger can be so devastating , surprising and uncontrollable when they choose to come out in the most unexpected way.

Because we feel guilty for having negative emotions like anger, this guilt lowers the self-esteem.  To find out if the seed of anger is in your heart, ask yourself the following questions:

• Who do you resent?
• What do you have a hard time forgiving the most? It could be a past humiliation, abandonment issue, or betrayal.
• Is there something you feel guilty about from past actions that comes back to your mind regularly like a movie? It can be lack of kindness, honesty, loyalty or courage.

Affirmations:
I am not a victim,  I take full responsibility for my life, karma, thoughts and actions.

I welcome the lessons of my existence and choices. My circumstances do not define who I am.

I am free to choose how I feel.

I choose peace, I forgive myself and others from my past, present and future.

I give freely and lovingly, I receive the flow of love and wisdom from Infinite Spirit.

By using these affirmations regularly, you can connect with your Astral Soul Essence bringing, Peace, Joy and Harmony to your daily activities and relationships.

Blessings,

Fabienne.

The Soul as Healer

The more I experience Past Life Regression Therapy to find the cause of present issues in my client’s life, the faster other modalities used such as ERT (Emotional Release Therapy) can achieve their healing goals.

Dr.Tramont had been a surgeon, OB/GYN physician for over 32 years and now converted in a semi-retirement practice of Past Life Regression to help people with physical as well as mental and emotional distress. In his book “Birth to Rebirth”, Dr.Tramont, M.D. concludes with: “By taking spirituality seriously, physicians would be able to give their patients a much greater degree of thorough and comprehensive care, because by doing so they will be addressing not only the needs of the mind and body, but also those of the soul. Our creator has shown us the most masterful of designs in His unique creation of the human body. Its complexity defies description, while its miraculous functions define medicine. Should physicians not also recognize and show reverence for the power of its life-giving force, the eternal soul?”

The following three conditions are self-healing enemies:

1)      Negative Emotions

Negative emotions invade the mind lowering the immune system and block the creative process of imagination, also called Dream Zone, Flow or Self-hypnotic Visualization with intent.

2)  Lack of Faith

To co-create with the super-conscious mind we need to believe in the process. Self-doubt and lack of faith in the goodness of the Infinite Spirit trigger low communication with higher self, spirit guides and angels.

3)  Drugs

When using drugs, alcohol and of course legal medical drugs, the mind is altered in such a way that the higher consciousness is not functioning. See Article: “There is always a Solution“

The free will of intent is the key to unlock the flow of wisdom and love that is always available to us. There is not such thing as “chosen one”; only souls ready to grow through learning’s and forgiveness.

“The Soul as Healer Retreat” is an invitation to “faire le point” (make a stop at a checking point) and search in the present moment what brings pain, limitation, blocks or lack of energy, creativity, joy and purpose in your life.

Gnostic Transpersonal Therapy is an open window to the garden of your unlimited possibilities.

The Time is NOW!

Blessings,

Fabienne.

 

What is Healing?

All healing is self-healing including Hypnotherapy. To heal yourself you need to be able to follow each step clearly and effortlessly. There are seven conditions to healing: Being aware on a conscious level that you need healing or to change behavior. You give yourself permission to release the emotion, addiction, life circumstances that no longer serve your purpose. Being willing to take responsibility for your life and where you are at the moment. The victim mentality is a trap to exile you from any possibility of self-liberation. Understand the learning brought by your challenge, the Karmic reason for your choices and circumstances, the meaning of the lesson attached to that experience.

Accessing the Subconscious Mind

The subconscious mind controls our emotions, our self-esteem, our beliefs and our body functions such as the immune, digestive, respiratory, cardiovascular systems to name only few. The subconscious mind is filled with awesome mysteries and powers.

Heart Purification

Archangel Michael by Fabienne

Whenever hurtful emotions or negative thoughts come your way, it means that you need to purify your heart. Judgmental thoughts, anger, resentment jealousy, etc. are blocking the pathway to Abundance and spiritual growth in your life.

Every time I conduct a seminar on Prosperity and Abundance, most of the participants realize that their heart is not at peace and the frustrations and emotional hurt become more evident. Unless we are ready to let go of the attachment to the ego controlling our thoughts and to take responsibility without self-blame, Abundance will not be fully experienced.

Saint John said that the Romans cannot free the slaves, only the slave can free himself from purifying his heart: “and the Truth will set you free!”  If “God, Infinite Spirit…” is Love and being self-liberated is becoming one with Higher-self, then all we have to do is to cultivate Love as the only state of mind.  We create our own Karma; everything that is happening to us is a consequence of past thoughts and deeds. We can never be a victim in the full sense of the word. One other benefit gained from seminars or a private session is to reinforce the intent to seek the truth of our soul’s journey without rising guilt or blame.

Destiny

Alive by Fabienne

Each one of us carries the seed of our own Destiny in our heart and soul. Our mission is to recognize our ability to have such vision and strive toward the manifestation of our perfect intent in harmony and peace. Whenever peace is not present in your actions, love is absent in your heart. Let me share with you an easy process that will bring you back on track of being the loving peaceful person that I am sure you wish to be all the time.

-         Be the observer:   Any time you focus your mind to observe how you feel, concentrate on your body first and be aware of discomfort, pain or even pressure, tightness or numbness.

When ever you feel edgy, impatient, suspicious, sad or even resentful, stop what you are doing; breath deeply, close your eyes if you can (scrap this if driving) and say: “Thank you God* for the awareness.” This affirmation will help you focus and set your intent for peace.  * Eternal Father, Divine Mother, Holy Spirit, Eloim, Infinite Spirit, Hasham, Deus, Infinite Love and Wisdom…

-         Detective attitude: Ask your higher-self what it meant to you, what it reminds you of, etc.

-         Once you get a clear answer, you can start the self-healing process.

“I release my ………” and say what ever you feel at the moment (judgment, anger, sadness, resentment, envy, jealousy, etc.)

“I release the need to be right” .